Guest Post: Home Automation & Free-Range Parenting: Independence 4 Kids, Assurance 4 Mom & Dad

What is free-range parenting?

Free-range parenting - the philosophy of allowing your children to explore and experience the world on their own terms - has been the subject of widespread debate for more than five years.

Free-range parenting, also called simplicity parenting and slow parenting, first entered the public eye when Lenore Skenazy published an article in the New York Sun titled, "Why I Let My 9-Year-Old Ride the Subway Alone" on April 1, 2008. The article, which describes her polarizing decision to allow her young son to ride the New York City subway by himself, prompted a range of reactions from the public. Many were horrified, and some even went as far as calling it child abuse. Others, however, endorsed Skenazy's decision to give her child the freedom to discover the world on his own accord.

 

How can free-range parents benefit from home automation? 

There is no magic formula or secret recipe to successful parenting. Every child is different, and it's up to you to figure out how to best raise your son or daughter.

For some parents - particularly single parents - it's oftentimes difficult to balance work responsibilities with the active supervision of their children. Others simply choose to raise their young ones more passively. Regardless, granting your kids more freedom is not an excuse for neglect, and requires just as much responsibility as any other parenting style.

Fortunately, technology has made it easier for parents who want to back off a little bit, but are hesitant to sacrifice the comfort of knowing their kids are safe and sound. Cutting-edge home security systems, in particular, have been a powerful tool for free-range parents.

Many high-profile residential security companies (check out here for more info) have begun offering affordable home automation packages to customers. Although the idea has been around since The Jetsons became popular in the early 1960s, home automation technology is only now becoming widely available.

A "smart home" system allows you to manage almost every aspect of your home using a web-enabled mobile device - from virtually anywhere. That means that, using your iPhone, you can check in on your son or daughter  at home from the office. You can also view live surveillance video, arm/disarm your security system, lock/unlock doors and even receive customizable text and video alerts.

With these capabilities, giving your children more freedom doesn't have to mean giving up the peace of mind that they are safe.

 

By Karen Clark
Blog Editor

Childhood Vaccines: An Informed Decision

Its been a while since I've blogged, once again life has taken over and I've had very little "me" time. A major development in my quest for better health has been our decision (read: my decision) to not immunize our children. Sure Lil D has had all her vaccines up to 18 months, but that will be all for her. I've got 3 years to figure out how to get her registered into a public school without having the "recommended" vaccines, I'm sure it will be an interesting journey.

We hope that you consider this list, and the side effects of vaccines before giving your child vaccinations. We have strong reasons to believe that overall, and in general, that the risks of horrible and long-term side effects far outweighs the risks of the diseases which vaccines are supposed to prevent.  Human blood is supposed to be, and traditionally was, remarkably sterile. There were virtually no bacteria or organisms present in the bloodstream. With vaccines now being so prevalent, this is no longer the case. SOURCE

2012

Recommended Immunizations for Babies

birth

HepB

Two Months

HepB

1-2 mos

+

DTaP

+

PCV

+

Hib

+

Polio

+

RV

Four Months

DTaP

+

PCV

+

Hib

+

Polio

+

RV

Six Months

HepB

6-18 mos*

+

DTaP

+

PCV

+

Hib

+

Polio

6-18 mos*

+

RV

(Influenza)

6 mos through 18 years**

Twelve Months

MMR

12-15 mos*

+

PCV

12-15 mos*

+

Hib

12-15 mos*

+

Varicella

12-15 mos*

+

HepA

12-23 mos*

(Influenza)

6 mos through 18 years**

Fifteen Months

DTaP

15-18 mos*

(Influenza)

6 mos through 18 years**

Vaccine Ingredients

  1. Aborted human fetus tissue and human albumin
  2. Vaccine Ingredient: Formaldehyde
  3. Vaccine Ingredient: Mercury
  4. Vaccine Ingredient: Antifreeze
  5. Vaccine Ingredient: Aluminum
  6. Vaccine Ingredient: 2-Phenoxyethanol
  7. Vaccine Ingredient: Phenol
  8. Vaccine Ingredient: Methanol
  9. Vaccine Ingredient: Borax(sodium tetraborate decahydrate)
  10. Vaccine Ingredient: Glutaraldehyde
  11. Vaccine Ingredient: Monosodium Glutamate (MSG)
  12. Vaccine Ingredients: Sulfate and phosphate compounds
  13. Vaccine Ingredient: Ammonium Sulfate
  14. Vaccine Ingredient: Gentamicin Sulfate
  15. Vaccine Ingredient: Neomycin Sulfate
  16. Vaccine Ingredient: Tri(n)butylphosphate
  17. Vaccine Ingredient: Polymyxin B
  18. Vaccine Ingredient: Polysorbate 20 / 80
  19. Vaccine Ingredient: Sorbitol
  20. Vaccine Ingredient: Polyribosylribitol
  21. Vaccine Ingredient: Beta-Propiolactone
  22. Vaccine Ingredient: Amphotericin B
  23. Vaccine Ingredients: Animal Organ Tissue and Animal Blood
  24. Vaccine Ingredient: Large Foreign Proteins
  25. Vaccine Ingredient: Latex
  26. Vaccine Ingredient: Animal Viruses
  27. Vaccine Ingredient: Human Viruses
  28. Vaccine Ingredient: Mycoplasma
  29. Vaccine Ingredient: Genetically Modified Yeast
  30. Vaccine Ingredient: Foreign DNA

For a comprehensive explanation of each of these ingredients here.

More Resources:

(1) We’ve been told that vaccines stimulate the immune system with a “rehearsal” of what will happen when an actual disease comes down the pipeline. When the disease does show up, the immune system will be locked and loaded, ready to destroy the attacking germ. Source

(2) A high immunity to disease doesn’t come from a needle, pill or supplement. It doesn’t come from antibacterial soaps and a germ free environment. Actually, considering the poor state of health most people are in these days, it can’t even come from healthy food and medicinal herbs alone any more. The epidemic of allergies, asthma, obesity, gastrointestinal infestations, infections, malabsorption and so much more are all directly related to poor immunity. It all comes down to the body’s own defense systems and how well or poor these function.

Isn’t it ironic that the time when we have no actual control of our health – our early childhood, it’s the very time when life long immunity is built or affected? The first seven years of our lives are crucial. And it actually doesn’t stop there. {Source}

(3) The Entire Vaccine Industry Is Being Exposed For Unproven Assumptions And Misrepresentations of Data

(4) The Most Damning vaccination Study Not Publically Disclosed to Date

(5) 30 years of secret, official transcripts prove vaccine schedules in US and UK are based on government lies

(6) More vaccination information from Share Banoosh here.

IMMUNITY BUILDERS IMMUNITY DESTROYERS

Breastfeeding----------------------------------------------------Commercial Baby Formula

Raw Organic Milk ------------------------------------------------The Gut Connection Betw Baby + Mother

Dirt, Farms, + Animals ------------------------------------------Vaccines

Healthy Food + Lifestyle----------------------------------------Sterile Environments

{Source Here} ---------------------------------------------------Drugs

Update

on 2012-12-09 16:07 by O. Cruz

Interesting article:

Court Requires 8-Year-Old to be Vaccinated Against Mother’s Wishes

Thrush: Unsolicited Advice

At my OB's office today.

 

Older Woman {OW}: Uwww! Look at that baby's tongue.

Me: I know we have been battling this thrush for 3 weeks. That's why I am here today.

OW: I have 8 kids, you know what you need to do?

Me:  WOW 8! No what do you suggest?

OW: You got to get you some Boric Acid . . .

Me: Boric Acid?! That's a new one.

Lettie: Isn't that what Mommy used to get rid of the ants?

OW: {Ignoring Lettie} Yeah, so you take one tablespoon of the Boric Acid and mix it in some water. You got to sterilize the water now.

Me: Okay, one tablespoon, boil water... okay.

OW: So you mix them make a paste and put it on that baby's tongue. It will take that thrush right out. You know what they say also works? Having a drunk person breath in the baby's face.

 

Me: {Blank stare}

 

 

 

Getting Ready for Baby Show

A couple of weeks ago I received a postcard in the mail inviting my husband and I to a "Getting Ready for Baby Show" at the Parsippany Sheraton (which is very nice btw). The invitation didn't offer much information like who was sponsoring the show or what specifically would be covered, but they provided a toll-free number if you wanted more information- I didn't bother to call. So Sunday morning D and I made the short drive to Parsippany to see what we could learn about getting ready for Baby Cruz. D and I arrived to find the "workshop" was in one of the Hospitality Suites of the hotel with about 15 other people anxiously waiting to see what this was about. To make a long story short, the safety "workshop" was actually a well constructed sales pitch for the Babee Tenda company. I was not as bothered as some of the folks in the room were, I took it for what it was a chance to gain insight to a new baby product. So below is a recap of the "seminar":

The Baby Carrier, The ExerSaucer, + The Swing

He began his presentation by informing his captive audience that as parents-to-be we must select and purchase products with a proven track record of greater than 6 years. Next he went on to express his grave concerns with Evenflo's ExerSaucer, the Baby Bjorn style carriers, and baby swings.

 

He illustrated with a doll how these products may lead to poor posture, a broken femur, and a host of other issues. {See "Injuries Associated with Infant Walkers," American Academy of Pediatrics and "Baby Walkers"}. 

The presenter stated the best alternative for these products- which people purchase to keep children "safe", stationary, and engaged- is to purchase a sling. A sling does not allow the baby to hang and it simulates a womb-like experience. He suggested looking for one without any plastic adjustments. Having no adjustments is best.

 The Car Seat

The presenter/salesman gave invaluable advice on purchasing a car seat. Simply put he said your car seat must have a slot to hook/loop the seatbelt through the actual car seat and not just the base. He also said don't use the carrier handle as you walk with the car seat because it is known to shift positions- carry the car seat in both hands if it needs to be transported with baby in it.

The Crib

The presenter made a profound statement to begin his discussion on cribs. He said, "there are more fatalities in unrecalled cribs than not" and cribs are the most deathly nursery product. When consumers shop for cribs they are often searching for the most aesthetically pleasing crib and not thinking about its safety factors. He reminded us that since a large percent of the crib manufacturers have factories in Asia that mass produce their products, the use of materials like steel and glue-nail construction are replaced with dreaded plastic and even lead filled finishes. Cheaper materials results in untimely infant deaths and injuries.

This had me thinking about my recent crib purchase. I thought "is our crib safe and if its not what the hell do I do with it". Well I was vexed for all of two minutes then I relaxed and said Bratt Decor has a reputation of being one of the best so I shouldn't fret.

About my crib . . . Bratt Decor implemented a Free Hardware for Life Campaign in 2008 that was created to help ensure the safety of every child with a Bratt Decor crib. Cribs are often assembled and reassembled multiple times, to accommodate more than one child, and cribs can be in continuous use for many years. When this happens, hardware can easily be lost and, as with any item, parts can simply wear out. Now, Bratt Decor will supply its clients with free replacement hardware for the life of any Bratt Decor crib produced after 2005.  

 

High Chairs

The presenter felt high chairs were basically spawns of the devil. He promoted feeding tables which of course is a product he was peddling.

 Check out this cool post from Ikea Hackers- they used products from Ikea and create a twin seat feeding table here.

 

Final products he highly recommends and was selling:

 The HALO® SleepSack® {need 2}

Breathable Bumper by Breathable Baby

Crib sheets that stretch

**Feeding Table by Baby Tenda

**Safety Crib by Baby Tenda

Baby Sense {crib respirator movement monitor}

 

**Baby Tenda Article

 

Take Home Lessons

 

  1. Baby Tenda is slick targeting first time parents.
  2. With every new purchase read the warning labels and check for product recalls
  3. Stationary cribs are best.
  4. Plastic parts made in China, Vietnam, or Thailand are not made with quality in mind. Choose steel and nails over plastic any day.

 

PRODUCT RECALLS

To keep up to date on current product recalls, make regular visits to the CPSC Recall pages, where you can also observe an insane pattern, as the same types of dangerous products get recalled over and over and over again. While you’re at it, you may as well also visit the FDA Recalls pages, where you can see the latest food and drug recalls. Here, you will also observe a similarly insane pattern, as the same types of dangerous products get recalled over and over and over again. ~Source